Okay, I understand that this was one man's opinion, and he's entitled to it…But how is a man to know or understand the effects of a penis on a women's body?

Yes, he's a participant, but he's not on the receiving end,he can only monitor her reaction, and only the reaction to his own penis. Take it from a woman: There is NOTHING that rivals the feel of a thicker, longer penis as it initially stretches the vagina open… That is the best part of having a bigger penis all around. From there on, it is strictly personal preference.

Some women don't like penises that are too long because longer penises tend to "bottom out, " or hit the back wall of the vagina. This can cause soreness to severe pain…But, as we know in the bdsm world, sometimes pain makes the pleasure all the better. So some women don't mind or even welcome the pain.

However, smaller or petite women may have a hard time accepting a larger penis, especially if not properly lubricated. Of course the above mentioned note on thickness begs the question as to difference and preference between thick and short or thick and long, right? Well, again, personal preferences. Not only personal preferences, but a knowledge of positions best suited for your size and your partner's likes and dislikes. And that goes for men of all sizes, not just the big ones.

Now to address the issue of the G-Spot and the role it plays in a women's orgasm. Men generally only have one kind of orgasm: ejaculation. Women, however have at least two: Clitoral and Vaginal. Some women also ejaculate, but let's not muddle things up with too much info.

Clitoral is the orgasm that women experience due to simulation of the clitoris. We all know that a penis isn't even required to achieve this kind of orgasm, a tongue or some fingers can do the job just as well, here. But the constant back and forth motion of intercourse, depending on the position, provides more than ample simulation to the clitoris to bring on an orgasm. So even men with shorter penises have no problem bringimg a woman to orgasm.

The other kind, vaginal orgasms are the ones that involve the G-Spot. If a penis is long enough to reach the G-Spot – it is not in the same place inside the vaginal for every woman; and if the couple is in the right position – different positions add or take away the amount of direct simulation to the G-Spot; a woman may experience a vaginal orgasm.

Most women can't tell the difference between the two types of orgasms and therefore don't have a preference. Vaginal orgasms do tend to be more intense for some women, but others don't like them, they are too intense. Some women experience no difference in intensity, regardless of the type of orgasm they experience. So the argument over size and whether it matters really comes down to personal preference.

But regardless of preferences, size does not stand in the way of the prefect orgasm if the couple in question invests in a little knowledge of positions…the right position can make a short penis seem longer, a long one seem shorter, a thick one not so thick and…well, you get the idea.

But I'm sorry guys, you'll just have to find out from your woman about her personal preference, and hopefully, hopefully she'll tell you the truth!